Bill Corbett

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Repeat offender: ME

On two separate occasions this week I managed to offend some people strongly on Twitter.  In the first case, it was mostly one guy.  In the other, quite a few people were upset.  …And I mean, right out of the gate, screaming FUCK YOU ASSHOLE -level upset.

Sometime in the near future I hope to have time to parse through the specifics of this, and let my pedantry flag fly.  But I’m too busy with work and family right now, and it’s theoretically a holiday, so that has to wait to be done with the care it deserves.

For now, I’ll say:  I don’t think even my biggest un-fan would say that my humor, writing, etc. relies mostly on being mean, offensive, and (sorry, this word was tired even 15 years ago) “edgy.”   The short version is: it’s never my goal to get attention mostly by being an unrepentant dick, and I don’t think any fair person could say that’s what I do — in any aspect of my career, including my years of MST3K / RiffTrax.

But when you’re in the humor and art biz, it is INEVITABLE that you will offend people, maybe many people, over time.  And sometimes they have a good case for suggesting that you’re an unrepentant dick, and other times they don’t.  A lot of stuff falls in the middle on that unrepentant-dickery continuum, too.

Humor is VERY subjective, and can become very personal.  My goal in life is not to make people feel shitty about themselves and the world, unless — perhaps — it’s a person who is making the world a significantly shittier place.  Even that type of humor can go sour quickly, in my opinion.

All this is to say:  I’m not trying to hurt people.  But nobody in comedy can take care of everyone’s feelings, all the time, and function for long.  IM - POSSIBLE.  And sometimes if a person says: “You hurt me and people like me with that remark,” I think twice, and feel bad about it, and apologize, and resolve to do better in the future.  

And sometimes I consider it and think “Sorry, I don’t feel so bad about that. Can’t help you with those feelings.”  This is especially true when I think the person has fundamentally misinterpreted the intention or meaning of the joke, Twitter crack, rant on the city bus, etc.  I happen to think this was true of BOTH my recent Twitter tussles, but sometimes it also does come down to: “I see this subject differently than you do.”  …at which point, there’s nowhere to go but hopefully you can end it civilly.  (And while I love Twitter for many things, it’s a terrible place to debate heated issues.)

However!  If instead of saying a version of “You hurt me etc. and here’s why etc.”, you come at me guns-a-blazin’ and poo-a-flingin’, and expect me to feel guilty about your feelings..? And be [*shudder*] “educated?”  …Well, then we will get nowhere fast.  You might feel Internet-powerful for a second (it fades SO fast, kids), but you won’t get much empathy from me.  You probably won’t even get my attention for more than a second, because it’ll be easy for me to say: “Unreasonable, poo-flinging jagoff. Blocked.”

Holy crap, this was the SHORT version.  

Truthfully, I may or may not have time to post a more substantive piece on this anytime soon. (By substantive, I mean analyzing these two particular experiences this week in their specificity.  I am a goddamned pedant, I am not kidding.)

But in the meantime, in the interest of keeping the peace and offending nobody: cute bunny 4 u.  (as seen above!)

Happy Independence Day.  May you be free of non-cute bunnies, and tyranny!



[UPDATE: one of the first bits of Twitter feedback I got, like a minute after posting this  —

you still don’t get it, and your non-apology doesn’t help.”

Oh, I think I do get it.   

So, being clearer:  I am not apologizing above. 

As for “doesn’t help?”  Doesn’t help what, exactly? 

Maybe it doesn’t help your feelings of rage and aversion and I HATE YOU ASSHOLE or whatever.  But as I tried to say as civilly as possible above, there may be nothing I can do about that.  And if you come at me like a jerky, condescending undergrad, I actually don’t want to do anything about it.  Sorry, I’m an artsy-fartsy comedy-type, not Gandhi.  (Even he would have lost patience with Twitter trolls.)

I may try to parse through the specific Twitter mess in the future if there’s time, because I think it DOES merit more care than Twitter poo-flinging allows, or than I have time for now.  If that doesn’t satisfy some Twitter debate-masters, and you unfollow / boycott / etc., knock yourselves out.  Announce it to the world, and savor your victory. I accept that so hard it’s not even funny.  

But for now, this will have to do.  And I reserve the right to wake up tomorrow and say “Eh, it’s not worth it.”]

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    Simply put, that’s what happens when you simply berate or brow-beat people with whatever cause you may have. You come...
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    Oh, please. Don’t pull...tone argument bullshit. When you call someone
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    didn’t read all...but “tranny”...really offensive slur,
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    Bill, I know you to be a lovely guy, and I watched that whole thing in absolute horror. It’s all about knocking down the...
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    This piece is interesting for a number of reasons....situation that caused
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    five year old kid shortening...learn something new every day.
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    Love how “It’s Comedy" is always the excuse…
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    I think Bill needs to Google “The Tone Argument” to understand why all of this is highly inadequate. But he won’t...
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    First I find out Mike Nelson is a paranoid Christian conservative, and now this. Fantastic; another of the comedy icons...
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    yeah i did not see that part and that part is not cool. at all. i trust he won’t make such jokes in the future. but i...
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    when you’re using words...PEOPLE SCREAM AT US AS THEY KILL US
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    I had to go to Corbett’s Twitter page to see what this was all about. I now regret giving him the page hit. :|
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